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Thursday, May 31, 2007

The best traits in Human beings

Hi !

My name is Akhil, I am a good friend of Sterding ( and very glad to have been introduset to Zhilin !)

I am a fairly un-experienced young guy (24)
So my aim for the next two years are to try and find out

1.
What I want in life and what education I should choose (study for passion / interrest or just to make money ?)

2.
Gain more experienced in social skill and mature thinking. To better take care of my self in dealings with people and life in general.

3.
understand how the world works. The professional work market, Media, Politics, global economy and try to get a peek in the connection between some of these subjects. (This is an uncontentious goal)

Anyway, this is just a brief introduction of me and what I am busy thinking about these days.


My question to you is ;

What are the best 5 human characters and the worst 5 human characters in your personnel opinion ???

I am asking this question in relation to point 2. in my personal goal:

Enable to have more experience to better take care of my self in dealings with people and life in general.

I think that if YOU know the best 5 - 8 human characteristics that will help you the most to succeed in life then you have a very very very good chance in shaping your life as you wish
and a big chance of getting anything you want. But this is related to experience and wisdom to a great extend. ( Not easy to gain)


Here is my view on the best human charecteristics and the worst .






Best human characters : (top most important)

Motivation (endless energy and will)
Confidence (if you don't try you will never know)
Concentration (efficiency)
Intelligence (efficiency)






Worst human characters : (top is worst)

Dumb (because capable of doing anything and are unpredictable)
Dis honest (those who are not direct are easy to misunderstand)







I will leave it at those. It is better to say few things I mean then much crap I don't believe in.


I would VERY MUCH like to have ' YOUR' feedback to accelerate mine and your growth to a maturing process to become adults who can control their own destiny.

What do you think.

posted by ? at 3:10 PM

4 Comments:

  • hi, Akhil

    Nice to see your words here. I think it's expectedly good to feel we ARE sharing some nice points.

    For me, I may need to take longer time to find out the answers of your 3 aims, just because it is SO important for a man's growth.

    I've been wasting time on the first question-"what I want in life and what education I should choose". I think Zhilin and Leihong don't have the problem, but you, aidao, and me are bothering by this question now. It's hard, I think. I was thinking that I could manage to balance my life both in research and in business. But looking from the back way in the passed one year, it's less possible. One has to focus his 80% time on one thing to get great achievement. It looks like a golden rule from the successful man. Sure, we can do plan for our whole life, for example, we could keep it as a dream in mind and try to make it come true in later part of our life. But which one is first? Sorry, I have no answer so far.

    To this question, I think we actually did make some choice, like the member introduction in the sidebar said.

    I am sure you did better in point 2nd than me. I was born to be not good at tricky dealing way. But fortunately, I could own the character of honesty, which should be added into the list of "Best human characters" in my points of view.

    I think it's a little bit hard to keep honest while tricky to deal with people. How do you think so?

    Till here today.

    By Blogger Xianjun, At June 1, 2007 at 5:12 PM  

  • Hi Akhil,

    After several times of chat. I find that you are full of passion on what you are doing, where I have a lot of space to improve.

    Actually I think the three points you said is one. The first one is the tool. And the second and the third ones are goals.

    We have exactly the same goals. Before coming to Shanghai, my professor suggest that I should go on to pursue PHD. I denied it 'cause I know that the deploma is not what I want. What I want to know is to understand the sociaty and to know something about how the world works just like you said. So I decide that I should study in the society and get PHD of the society. I want to quote what Forest's mother said in "Forest Gump". Every one has a destiny, you should make best with what God gives you to find out what is your destiny.

    As for the point one, the method, I think the only thing we have to do is to experience. Whenever we want to do something, then do it. Do not keep it just in your mind. There is a Chinese saying that goes with a Shaikh. When a young man want to leave the tribe to know something out of the tribe. The Shaikh told the young man:

    Nothing to be afraid.
    Never to regret.

    I think that is what we should do. We are young. We are rich in time. That is our biggest resource. So let's experience.

    Nothing to be afraid.
    Never to regret.

    By Blogger Zhilin, At June 1, 2007 at 5:53 PM  

  • Hi Xianjun,

    I think it is easy to be dishonest to people that are more honest than you - people that expect good things from you.

    Im my experience dishonesty is stronly connected to too much kindness and poeoples lack of respect as a result of too much kindness. But the good thing is it is possible to control a persons honesty by being more strict and excepting no bullshit from people. I think this is easy to improve after some few irritating experiences.

    This knowledge is experience / social maturity.

    By Blogger Unknown, At June 10, 2007 at 3:25 PM  

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